The elations of you being subjugated are the polar opposites ( and therefore closely akin to) to my delights. It is a truism that all polarities express the opposite concludes of a single principle or idea. Like yin and yang, darkness and light, servant masculine and imperious girl need one another to be accomplish. – With attendant garment, demeanor, speech, and rituals, you may feel like you are becoming someone else. In the process, you will find yourself allowed to say and do things strictly prohibited in ordinary life. Paradoxically, that someone else is yourself – just a part of yourself that you don’t ordinarily permit to speak.